Me talking to group: "Okay, so if I gave you a million dollars every-time you pushed a little red button on a box, but someone dies every time its pushed, would you push the button?"
J: "No, i would not want anyone to die and it's could be someone you know."
Me: "But its a million dollars"
J: "I wouldn't do it."
Me: "I would."
J speaking directly to me: "Button pusher."